So often when sitting in a group of women, there has to always be a conversation that ends up in who is doing what and how... Why is it that us as women are often so concerned about the affairs of our neighbours, and not to say its because we are looking to uplift them, but it is juicy time-wasting gossip! The culture of Ubuntu suggests that no man is an island, that we need each other to live and to get ahead. I see more of a culture of unity in men than in women! Think of this scenario: Your husband has an affair and it has been long lasting, all his friends know about it, even when you find out about the affair and you approach them, they would still deny it. Let's reverse the roles for a bit, a woman having an affair and shares with her friends, nine times out of ten, one friend will ensure that the husband finds out. Let me clarify and say that I am not condoning affairs, it just seemed the most appropriate example to use. This clearly indicates that majority of women cannot accept another woman's success. We as women have such power, that is beyond our understanding, the power to persuade, the power to multi task, the power to withstand any condition yet men still hold the economy... why? WE NEED EACH OTHER TO GET AHEAD!
Today I want to encourage you bo Makoti, to stop and reflect on your lives... Are you doing your bit to work together as women, or do you secretly trash other women because you subconsciously believe them to be better than you?
No one is better than another, we all have different purposes to serve. A stay at home mom and a high level CEO all serve different purposes, none of which is better than the other. Let us work together and encourage each other. Let us stop duplicating one another and instead apply the beautiful creative minds that the Lord has blessed us with! If we could begin a revolution of sharing, a revolution of supporting each other, a revolution of togetherness, we women would truly indeed RULE!!! As we go into women's month, let us make a commitment to be each other's guide!
IT NEVER TOO LATE TO START!!!! #HappyMonday
Today I want to encourage you bo Makoti, to stop and reflect on your lives... Are you doing your bit to work together as women, or do you secretly trash other women because you subconsciously believe them to be better than you?
No one is better than another, we all have different purposes to serve. A stay at home mom and a high level CEO all serve different purposes, none of which is better than the other. Let us work together and encourage each other. Let us stop duplicating one another and instead apply the beautiful creative minds that the Lord has blessed us with! If we could begin a revolution of sharing, a revolution of supporting each other, a revolution of togetherness, we women would truly indeed RULE!!! As we go into women's month, let us make a commitment to be each other's guide!
IT NEVER TOO LATE TO START!!!! #HappyMonday